Love is the braveness of a grown-up man---- review the book of little prince

 

The little prince in the book once said: you are here, in a garden which you have already planted five thousand roses, but you still fail to find the one which you wanted most. The whole book is talking about what is love, what is being love and what is the love we give to others.

Meet the people similar to us, the depth of their minds and thinking same as ourselves, have the consistent emotional patterns, but when we truly met these kind of people to us, we are always lack of the courage to abandon the things we usually care about and to open our heart to love someone. So this is totally different when we have the impulse on our youth age. The more expectations we desire for this person, the more possibilities of clashes between us and the person will soon happened. So this also proves that when we grow up, we are more lack of the fearless when we are young, because the most evil thing during our life is: people only have the opportunity to be the young man once, just once. People only want to see all the good of the one who we want to be with, anxiously want him or her is completely according to the ideal characters from our imagination.

The fox in the book says: for what you have been domesticated, you are responsible for this thing forever. The little prince says: as long as we carefully use our heart, the things that you are looking for can be founded in each rose and a drop of water. Resonates in my mind, this needs the persistence of both the two people, if only one people have the faith to insist the relationship but another one give up because of fear, this two people can be very hard to continue the relationship. When we all been through these, we started to believe the old-time marriage back to many years that in different periods, two people just holding the faith which they believe they can’t be separated by anything and let the accumulation of time and patience continue, finally, hold your hand, till death do we part.

What is growth? Growth is to face and fully experience fear, only through the area of fear so that we could expand the boundaries of ourselves. Love is also like the same as growth. Irreplaceable love from rational judgment and two people been through the jeopardies and the time abound of difficulties and at last, the two people are still together and never separate. Nowadays, temptations are everywhere; the cost of betrayal is far less than collapse, so without insists, even in five thousand roses we still couldn’t find the unique one.

So many people in this world, the people who can fit in us still exist. If we still looking for the love like the little prince, the only thing we can do is to be the best of ourselves, and fearlessly love the man we met, just like a blind love. Now we have met enough people, some of them just talk to us and walk away from our life, we only need a few seconds so we can have the basic judgment of whether this person fit to us, we are not lack of the techniques and skills but courage and commitment, so I think, if you feel it is the right time to love, go ahead to love, like never been hurt. This is the most important thing that little prince told us to do.